Let's have a trial.....

Wat is Gud and Wat is bad ? It's an easy way to differentiate but sumtime i really cant differentiate wat is gud & bad. Hv u come to tot of this ? Hv u met up the way u solve is cant differentiate either is a gud way or bad way for u to step in....
I hv met up a case is related to loveship but sure the person is not me. Hehe~~~ Let treat the person is A.
One day A meet up a guy in a party and they start to know each and other. At the same day, the guy says "I like this gal" and they start their loveship, maybe we can say this as "Yat Kin Chong Cheng". They have a promise btw each and other when they start the relationshipn and the promise is "Let we hv a 3 months Trial in this relationship". With this promise, A couldnt diffentiate "Did she choose a wrong way or gud way" ? At the middle of the trial, A starts to lose herself in the loveship. A couldnt taste the happyness of love, A Couldnt get the warm from her lover. At the same time, A is lookin for frienz to find out the problem and try to solve it. She keeps tryin to cheer up herself and given a lot of chance for the guy but at the end A gets nothin. At the end of the day, she lost this war.....
For another case, this a bit simliar v the previous one.Let treat the person is B.
One day, B breaks up v her bf and they come out v an idea, "Let's we have a break up trial" ! Is new for me, but maybe i outdated o wat la~~~ "Break up trial meanz try to "repair" loveship in a given of time period". They need to knw more each and other v given more time ? Wat r they doin ? Shall we say they are in relationship ? This is only a qustion mark for us to think about this.
For personal view, i think that sumtime we really cannot control anythin. We desire to love sumone and a person loves us as well. We are trying to find any excuse and any ways to solve our problems. We scare to lose in a loveship and we are trying to "repair" ourselves. For eg, they come out v a "Trial" to solve problem... Is late to do it ? anyone knw ? There's no an accurate answer for u. We really cannot differetiate gud or bad in our life sumtime......i jux can pray and hope this is a gud way for u...
Wat do you think ?

March 12, 2007